Marriage is to serve each other
Marriage is a decision to serve each other whether in bed or out, a regular sex life is good for your health. It can satisfy all sorts of emotions and physical needs and help each other to stay close. The truth is without this physical drive many couples slowly drift apart. Keep oneness in your marriage, a oneness marriage is formed by a husband and wife who is practicing intimacy trust and understanding of one another. Marriage demands a lifetime of relying on God, it’s a tender merger of body soul and spirit. As we ask God for wisdom and search the Scriptures, he supplies the skills to build our marriage. Without God in our marriage we simply suffer. Learning marriage principle is great, but we need the power of the Holy Spirit in our lives if we want change in our marriage. (Malachi 2:13-17)
Pray every day together, this would bring you closer as a married couple. Take time once or twice a week to read and study the Bible together.
Take vacations together. Always plan to have a weekend away together once a month or once every three months to keep your marriage alive and fresh, even if it’s only to the hotel down the street.
Express your love daily say I love you kiss and hug each other, complement each other and celebrate each other success and differences.
When sex is good in a marriage it is a very small percentage of that marriage relationship. But when sex is a struggle in a marriage it overshadows a load of different areas.
The media our flesh and the enemy of God will lie to us about what sex is intended for in a biblical marriage.
Learn to enjoy each other, go to bed early and spend time meeting each other’s needs.
Devote the evening to focusing on each other and not necessarily TV or movie.
Plan your sexual schedule so you both know far in advance not to plan activities that will exhaust you. (Especially older couples)
It’s important to hold each other after intercourse, just don’t go to sleep. Talk and caress each other.
In marriage, sex is a holy act. It should be honored and kept Pure (Hebrew 13:4). Sex is a precaution against infidelity (1Corinthians 7:3-5). Sexual intimacy is to be shared between a husband and wife only and it is for their pleasure (Proverbs 5:15-19). Sex is for husbands and wives for mutual satisfaction (Song of Solomon 5:1).
Intercourse is also for procreation, recreation, communication, consultation and release of tension.
If you’re tired, don’t say NO, say WHEN.
Minister Brad N Dot Wicker
Christian marriage enrichment